Relationships are hard! The evidence confirms this, 80% of people who cohabit split up, over half of all marriages end in divorce. The figures speak for volumes. Across the globe, people are struggling with relationships.
I understand why this is. I also know, when your relationship is turbulent, it impacts the whole of your life. Humans are complex. You and your partner are no exception. You are both shaped by different experiences in your lives, your own beliefs and values, as well as the unique way you interpret life events. It gives you both a different lens with which you view the world.
Navigating your relationship without the right know-how and support can be very difficult. Is it no wonder so many people break up or worse still, live in misery together?
Here are a few ways most people tackle relationship challenges:
Do nothing & hope it all sort's itself out
Suffer in silence, ignoring their feelings until it comes to the surface when least expected
Force their partner to therapy or counselling
Cut & run without trying to sort things out
There is another way .......
Relationship coaching!
Relationship coaching works by supporting you to transform your relationship. With the support of your coach, you will work through the challenges you face, why you are experiencing them and how to fix them. You can do this on your own or with your partner. Both ways will have a positive impact on your relationship.
The results are transformative and will lead to higher levels of relationship joy, happiness and satisfaction.
Why hire a relationship coach?
You see the same issues arising time and time again
You aren't communicating well
Your sex life has nosed dived
You feel disconnected from your partner
You are questioning if the relationship is right for you
You and your partner are snappish and unsupportive of each other
You are walking on eggshells
It takes longer than it used to recover from the arguments
You've forgotten why you fell in love
The kids are flying the nest and, you wonder what you have left together
You are living in different orbits
The relationship feels transactional
There are many reasons people hire a coach but, the number one reason is what they are doing isn't working, feeling unhappy and a desire to change it.
It is hard to believe but, we all have choices. It's a beautiful part of life that we often dismiss out of fear. If you think you have no options in life, it is probably fear talking. On the other side is transformation and happiness. Are you ready to take this step? Would you like a happy, healthy relationship filled with joy?
You are one phone call away. Let's chat about how I can support you in your relationship reset. Book a call today or email info@inflori.co.uk for more details.
I know how challenging relationships can be and how exhausting it is when things don't feel right. It is emotionally draining and you can feel so alone. Don't suffer, if you need support make the first step, and start today, with a no-obligation chat. I'm sure you feel better once you say things out loud.
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